The Power of Letting Go!

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1. Are you feeling guilty of anything you did in the past? Not able to forget and feeling bad every now and then? Here, read on…I’ll tell you what to do.

Let go of the guilt feelings; after all “To err is human” and “Nobody is perfect all the time”. So, if you have done some mistakes – however small or big they may be, let go of them. Let us not carry them forward and let us forgive ourselves for committing them. Let us swear not to do them again (there are plenty others to do:)) and take them as good learning experience.

2. Someone betrayed your trust? Did some wrong to you? Hate them? Exhausted rebuking, still not feeling okay? Wait! Read on! Again, I’ll tell you what to do.

Analyse the wrong they did as either of these:

A.     Intentional
B.     Unintentional

If its unintentional, then ‘forgive them unconditionally’ (even if they don’t say sorry). Tell to yourself that you have forgiven them. And don’t carry forward the grudges anymore, remove the remorseful feeling forever from your heart and carry on with the usual friendliness. I’ll guarantee you happiness and peace of mind if you do so!

Now comes the difficult part- Intentional wrong doings. Again, ‘Forgive them – but on one condition – don’t trust them again, if you do, you’ll agree when I say that you are acting foolish. Forgive them in the sense that don’t think of revenging, don’t keep recounting but be careful about how you deal with these kind of people. Not very difficult, just a bit of caution would do!

So, Let go of mistakes of your own and that of others as well. Don’t hold on to them. Holding on to them weighs heavily. Why carry the load when you have the option to throw them away?!

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Anonymous said…
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- David
January 30, 2011 at 6:53 PM
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